I am a criminal

Am I a bad mom because I gave my 16 month old a whole apple?  Probably!  I didn't even peel the sticker off.   I think that might be the icing on the choking hazard cake!  Guess what else I do?  I give both my children that are under the age of 3 popcorn!  And peanut butter!!  Oh and lets not forget whole grapes and hot dogs.  Put the hand cuffs on and lock me up!  Who are these rules for?  And for that matter- who follows them?  Not me that's for sure.  Who is the "they" that decided what I can feed my kids?  For all of you shaking your head out there thinking that I am a monster- I know the baby heimlich maneuver!  Even if I can't spell it.